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Ways To Help Your Child Handle Bullying
· Get The Factso Stay calm and be objective
§ You may not have the whole story
o Assure your child that the problem will be addressed
o Gather as many details as possible
§ Where, when, who was involved
o Keep records of when your child is bullied. This will help to show that there is a pattern and that it is not just a one time event.
· Communicate With The Schoolo Encourage your child to speak to his/her teacher or school counselor verbally or in writing.
o If your child is not comfortable speaking up, you can contact your child’s teacher or school counselor
o Continue to maintain open communication with school personnel
· Encourage Your Child To Use Strategies That They Have Learnedo Tell the bully to stop
o Walk away
o Know that it is not your fault
o Tell adults at home and at school
o Stay with trusted friends
o Hang out with people who will let you be you
o Don’t be a bully yourselfWhat To Do If Your Child May Be Bullying Otherso Talk clearly about behaviors and expectations
o Avoid physical punishments
o Reduce the amount of TV and video game violence
o Determine whether or not your child is being mistreated
§ Sometimes bullying can be a reaction to hurt, fearful or angry emotionsADDITIONAL RESOURCES: